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1961 – Grant Green – Green Street

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blackisthenewgod:

DeathBecomesHer

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donotdestroy:

“Genuine individuals require no validation, while pretenders feel compelled to prove themselves.”

— Do Not Destroy

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The Voice of Happiness

After Bankei had passed away, a blind man who lived near the master’s temple told a friend: “Since I am blind, I cannot watch a person’s face, so I must judge his character by the sound of his voice. Ordinarily when I hear someone congratulate another upon his happiness or success, I also hear a secret tone of envy. When condolence is expressed for the misfortune of another, I hear pleasure and satisfaction, as if the one condoling was really glad there was something left to gain in his own world.

“In all my experience, however, Bankei’s voice was always sincere. Whenever he expressed happiness, I heard nothing but happiness, and whenever he expressed sorrow, sorrow was all I heard.”

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Bagdad Cafe

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Narcissism is a mental condition that can be caused by a number of factors, including:

Genetics

People with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) are more likely to have close relatives with the condition.

Observation and imitation

Children can learn narcissistic traits and behaviors from observing and imitating others.

Negative childhood experiences

There may be a link between NPD and negative childhood experiences.

Parenting style

Overprotective or “helicopter” parenting, or overindulging children, can lead to children who expect and demand the same treatment from others.

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donotdestroy:

What is Self-Deception?

Self-deception is the act of fooling yourself into believing something that is not true or denying aspects of reality to avoid discomfort or cognitive dissonance. Signs of self-deception include:

  • Rationalizing or justifying your actions or beliefs
  • Ignoring evidence that contradicts your beliefs
  • Minimizing or dismissing the effect of your behavior on yourself or others
  • Avoiding self-reflection or introspection to maintain a preferred self-image

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donotdestroy:

“There are different reasons why people bully, including: wanting to dominate others and improve their social status. having low self-esteem and wanting to feel better about themselves. having a lack of remorse or failing to recognise their behaviour as a problem.”

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The Ballad of the Sad Café (film)

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“Formal education will make you a living; self-education will make you a fortune.”

— Jim Rohn

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twixnmix:

Ike & Tina Turner photographed by Tony Frank, 1971.

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Money Mark – Information Contraband

by Logan in 2001