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Adult bullying: The epidemic no one talks about | Kevin Ward | TEDxSantaBarbara
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“There are different reasons why people bully, including: wanting to dominate others and improve their social status. having low self-esteem and wanting to feel better about themselves. having a lack of remorse or failing to recognise their behaviour as a problem.”
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“There’s no one reason why people bully, but many people who engage in this conduct: Feel powerless; Suffer from insecurity; Need to control others; Enjoy the rewards they get from bullying. For example, bullying a classmate might make a kid more popular, or bullying a worker might stop other employees from questioning management decisions. These outcomes show bullies that this conduct pays off.”
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https://www.manarom.com/blog/body_shaming.html
“Body shaming-BS” คือ การที่คนอื่นมาวิพากษ์วิจารณ์รูปร่างหน้าตา การแต่งตัว บุคลิกท่าทาง และรูปลักษณ์ที่แสดงออกภายนอกของเรา ไม่ว่าจะเป็นการพูดตรงๆ พูดเปรียบเทียบ หรือพูดล้อเล่น คำพูดเหล่านี้ส่งผลเสียต่อร่างกายและจิตใจของคนที่ถูกต่อว่าล้อเลียนอย่างมาก (emotional trauma) เป็นรูปแบบหนึ่งของการกลั่นแกล้งกัน (bullying) ทำให้เหยื่อรู้สึกไม่ภาคภูมิใจในตัวเอง (low-self esteem) นำไปสู่การป่วยเป็นโรคด้านจิตเวชได้ เช่น โรคซึมเศร้า (Depression) โรควิตกกังวลเรื่องรูปร่างหน้าตา (Body Dysmorphic Disorder-BDD) โรคการกินผิดปกติ (Eating Disorder) ยิ่งถูก BS ตั้งแต่อายุน้อยเท่าไรโดยเฉพาะอย่างยิ่งช่วงวัยรุ่นที่ต้องมีพัฒนาสร้างความเป็นตัวตน (self-identity) จะส่งผลเสียอย่างมาก มีการศึกษาวิจัยจากทั่วโลกพบความชุกของเรื่อง BS ร้อยละ 25-35 รายงานที่พบความชุกมากสุด คือ ร้อยละ 45″
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“There are different reasons why people bully, including: wanting to dominate others and improve their social status. having low self-esteem and wanting to feel better about themselves. having a lack of remorse or failing to recognise their behaviour as a problem.”
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“There are different reasons why people bully, including wanting to dominate others and improve their social status, having low self-esteem and wanting to feel better about themselves, and lacking remorse or failing to recognize their behavior as a problem.”
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What Causes Contempt in Relationships
Contempt comes from a place of superiority and makes the other feel inferior. Deep down, it stems from a sense of feeling unappreciated and unacknowledged in the relationship. It can take the form of verbal or non-verbal language, which can include sarcasm, mockery, and facial gestures.
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How to Spot Narcissistic Abuse
“Narcissists don’t really love themselves. Actually, they’re driven by shame. It’s the idealized image of themselves, which they convince themselves they embody, that they admire. But deep down, narcissists feel the gap between the façade they show the world and their shame-based self. They work hard to avoid feeling that shame. To fill this gap narcissists use destructive defense mechanisms that destroy relationships and cause pain and damage to their loved ones.”
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“You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger.”
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“One’s dignity may be assaulted, vandalized and cruelly mocked, but it can never be taken away unless it is surrendered.”
— Michael J. Fox
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The effects of bullying have serious and lasting negative impacts on our mental health and overall wellbeing. Bullying can cause feelings of rejection, exclusion, isolation, low self-esteem, and some individuals can develop depression and anxiety as a result. In some cases it can even develop into Acute Stress Disorder or Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
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Why do people bully?
There are different reasons why people bully, including:
- wanting to dominate others and improve their social status
- having low self-esteem and wanting to feel better about themselves
- having a lack of remorse or failing to recognise their behaviour as a problem
- feeling angry, frustrated or jealous
- struggling socially
- being the victim of bullying themselves