“So why do people cheat? Often, it’s not because they’re looking for someone else—it’s because they’re looking for themselves. And that search, Perel says, starts not with fixing your partner, but with reawakening your own sense of desire and surprise.”
“The study’s data suggests that this passage between years 4 and 5 of a relationship is a significant turning point. And sure enough, just as this time period lowers the probability that a relationship will end, we also see a change in regard to a more familiar milestone – marriage.”
“Let me tell you something straight out of the gate: whenever a girl gives you mixed signals, it’s a sign that her Interest Level is LOW. That’s the hard and fast rule.”