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I Am Your Father

People who call themselves “Father” without formal religious authority might be perceived as self-important because they are assuming a title that traditionally signifies spiritual leadership, wisdom, and authority. Here are some reasons why this can come across as self-important:

  1. Claiming Authority Without Recognition – In established religious traditions, “Father” is a title earned through ordination. When someone uses it without being part of a recognized institution, it can seem like they are elevating themselves without legitimate backing.
  2. Seeking Influence – Some individuals adopt the title to gain followers or exert influence over others, positioning themselves as a source of wisdom or spiritual guidance.
  3. Creating a Persona – Some may use “Father” as part of a self-styled image to appear more enlightened, powerful, or special compared to ordinary people.
  4. Manipulation or Cult Behavior – In extreme cases, self-proclaimed religious leaders use the title to control or manipulate others, demanding loyalty and obedience.

Of course, not everyone who calls themselves “Father” without official status is necessarily self-important. Some might do it for harmless personal reasons or cultural traditions. However, when someone adopts a title that implies authority without earning it through recognized means, it can raise questions about their motivations.

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Because parents have power over children. They feel they have to do what their parents say. But the love of money is the root of all evil. And this is a sweet child. And to see him turn like this, this isn’t him. This is not him.

— Michael Jackson

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2 Thai Institutions students cause strife on the bus, 2012 Bangkok, Thailand.

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Erikson’s theory of personality

The Erikson life-stage virtue, in order of the eight stages in which they may be acquired, are:

  1. Hope, Basic trust vs. basic mistrust—This stage covers the
    period of infancy, 0-1 year of age, which is the most fundamental stage
    of life. Whether the baby develops basic trust or basic mistrust is not
    merely a matter of nurture. It is multi-faceted and has strong social
    components. It depends on the quality of the maternal relationship. The
    mother carries out and reflects their inner perceptions of
    trustworthiness, a sense of personal meaning, etc. on the child. If
    successful in this, the baby develops a sense of trust, which “forms the
    basis in the child for a sense of identity.” Failure to develop this
    trust will result in a feeling of fear and a sense that the world is
    inconsistent and unpredictable.
  2. Will, Autonomy vs. Shame—Covers early childhood around 1–3
    years old. Introduces the concept of autonomy vs. shame and doubt. The
    child begins to discover the beginnings of his or her independence, and
    parents must facilitate the child’s sense of doing basic tasks “all by
    himself/herself.” Discouragement can lead to the child doubting his or
    her efficacy. During this stage the child is usually trying to master
    toilet training.
  3. Purpose, Initiative vs. Guilt—Preschool / 3–6 years. Does the
    child have the ability to or do things on their own, such as dress him
    or herself? If “guilty” about making his or her own choices, the child
    will not function well. Erikson has a positive outlook on this stage,
    saying that most guilt is quickly compensated by a sense of
    accomplishment.
  4. Competence, Industry vs. Inferiority—School-age
    / 6–11 years. Child comparing self-worth to others (such as in a
    classroom environment). Child can recognize major disparities in
    personal abilities relative to other children. Erikson places some
    emphasis on the teacher, who should ensure that children do not feel
    inferior.
  5. Fidelity, Identity vs. Role Confusion—Adolescent
    / 12–18 years. Questioning of self. Who am I, how do I fit in? Where am
    I going in life? Erikson believes, that if the parents allow the child
    to explore, they will conclude their own identity. If, however, the
    parents continually push him/her to conform to their views, the teen
    will face identity confusion.
  6. Love, Intimacy vs. isolation—This
    is the first stage of adult development. This development usually
    happens during young adulthood, which is between the ages of 18 to 35.
    Dating, marriage, family and friendships are important during the stage
    in their life. By successfully forming loving relationships with other
    people, individuals are able to experience love and intimacy. Those who
    fail to form lasting relationships may feel isolated and alone.
  7. Care, Generativity vs. stagnation—The second stage of
    adulthood happens between the ages of 35-64. During this time people are
    normally settled in their life and know what is important to them. A
    person is either making progress in their career or treading lightly in
    their career and unsure if this is what they want to do for the rest of
    their working lives. Also during this time, a person is enjoying raising
    their children and participating in activities, that gives them a sense
    of purpose. If a person is not comfortable with the way their life is
    progressing, they’re usually regretful about the decisions that they
    have made in the past and feel a sense of uselessness.
  8. Wisdom, Ego integrity vs. despair—This stage affects the age
    group of 65 and on. During this time an individual has reached the last
    chapter in their life and retirement is approaching or has already taken
    place. Ego-integrity means the acceptance of life in its fullness: the
    victories and the defeats, what was accomplished and what was not
    accomplished. Wisdom is the result of successfully accomplishing this final developmental task. Wisdom is defined as “informed and detached concern for life itself in the face of death itself.”
  9. For Ninth Stage
  • “Basic Mistrust vs. Trust: Hope”
    In the ninth stage, “elders are forced to mistrust their own
    capabilities” because one’s “body inevitably weakens.” Yet, Joan Erikson
    asserts that “while there is light, there is hope” for a “bright light
    and revelation.”
  • “Shame and Doubt vs. Autonomy: Will”
    Ninth stage elders face the “shame of lost control” and doubt “their
    autonomy over their own bodies.” So it is that “shame and doubt
    challenge cherished autonomy.”
  • “Inferiority vs. Industry: Competence”
    Industry as a “driving force” that elders once had is gone in the ninth
    stage. Being incompetent “because of aging is belittling” and makes
    elders “like unhappy small children of great age.”
  • “Identity confusion vs. Identity: Fidelity”
    Elders experience confusion about their “existential identity” in the
    ninth stage and “a real uncertainty about status and role.”
  • “Isolation vs. Intimacy: Love”
    In the ninth stage, the “years of intimacy and love” are often replaced
    by “isolation and deprivation.” Relationships become “overshadowed by
    new incapacities and dependencies.”
  • “Stagnation vs. Generativity: Care”
    The generativity in the seventh stage of “work and family
    relationships,” if it goes satisfactorily, is “a wonderful time to be
    alive.” In one’s eighties and nineties, there is less energy for
    generativity or caretaking. Thus, “a sense of stagnation may well take
    over.”
  • “Despair and Disgust vs. Integrity: Wisdom”
    Integrity imposes “a serious demand on the senses of elders.” Wisdom
    requires capacities that ninth stage elders “do not usually have.” The
    eighth stage includes retrospection that can evoke a “degree of disgust
    and despair.” In the ninth stage, introspection is replaced by the
    attention demanded to one’s “loss of capacities and disintegration.”

Living in the ninth stage, Joan Erikson expressed confidence that the
psychosocial crisis of the ninth stage can be met as in the first stage
with the “basic trust” with which “we are blessed.”