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“Narcissism is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one’s idealized self-image and attributes.”

— Sigmund Freud

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“Gaslighting often involves a loss of personal identity. Over time, you may begin to feel like you’ve changed beyond recognition or become numb and hollow. Living in a constant state of nervousness and worry can leave you with little energy for self-care or your own interests. Yet making time to meet your physical and emotional needs can help you reclaim your energy and hold on to your sense of self. As a result, you may even find it easier to navigate and challenge attempts to gaslight you.”

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“Narcissism is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one’s idealized self-image and attributes.”

— Sigmund Freud

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Are you a responsible oldest child, an overlooked middle, or a free-wheeling baby? For those who adhere to the theory that birth order influences personality, the answer to that question may hold the key to who you are as a person. At parties, family dinners, and therapy sessions, people can use birth order as a kind of shorthand for personality traits—an only child’s selfishness, perhaps, or a middle child’s struggle for visibility.

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‘I’d rather not know’: Why we choose ignorance

“Across the studies, the researchers found that when given an option, 40% of people chose not to learn the consequences of their actions. That willful ignorance was correlated with less altruism: People were 15.6 percentage points more likely to be generous to someone else when they were told the consequences of their choice compared with when they were allowed to remain ignorant.”

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“Emotional conditioning by parents creates automatic regimens in how we respond to ourselves and to others in relationships. These knee-jerk reactions take place outside our awareness. Both personalities can show automatic black-and-white responses in the ways they overvalue and devalue people. This can create misunderstandings and conflicts in relationships and harm the way people treat themselves.”

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The Thai Character: Flexibility and Adjustment Orientation

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Flexibility and Corruption

Since the Thai are not principle oriented, and with
the high value for personal relationships, they also appear not to be
strictly law-oriented. In practice, principles and laws are
ever-adjustable to fit persons and situations. In other words, laws are
rules laid out in papers; but what is wrong or right depends not on the
rules, but instead on who the person is or whom the person knows. A
prominent Thai businessman ironically described this phenomenon in a
seminar:

We Thai are not a society of law; we are a society
of relationship…. It is not what a person has done that’s wrong; it’s
who he is…. If he is your cousin, or your friend, then what he has
done is not wrong. But if another person does the same thing, and it’s
somebody you don’t like, then what he has done is wrong…
   
This is the reason why law enforcement in Thailand hardly works. If
it does, it is selectively enforced on those who are either nobody or do
not know anybody, or who have no money to ease their wrong-doings or
buy their way out of problems. As a society of relationship, it is easy
and common for an officer, upon request from even friends of friends, to
pull out, cross out or destroy a traffic citation issued. For the sake
of a smooth relationship, officers would overlook, turn a blind eye, or
keep silent. The point here is that, while the basic Thai value system
should not be blamed as the major factor for corruption, it definitely
does not help to inhibit corruption either.
   

In general, this characteristic “Flexibility and
Adjustment” value orientation has perhaps accounted for varieties of
behavioral patterns, ranging from the facilitation of ethnic
assimilation process, to the tendency of being corruption prone. In
addition, it provides a deeper understanding to the various existing
interpretations of the Thai being “unpredictable”, “non-committing”,
“irresponsible” or even “selfish” and “opportunistic”, by foreigners.
   

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Psychology of the Thai people : values and behavioral patterns by Suntaree Komin

Each of the following descriptions of Thai Character Traits opens separately :

1. Ego Orientation

2. Grateful Relationship Orientation

3. Smooth Interpersonal Relationship Orientation

4. Flexibility and Adjustment Orientation

5. Religio-Psychical Orientation

6. Education and Competence Orientation

7. Interdependence Orientation

8. Fun-Pleasure Orientation

9. Achievement-Task Orientation

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Bullying

Bullying is a complex issue with various underlying causes. People engage in bullying behavior for different reasons, and it’s important to understand that it is not justified or acceptable. Here are some common reasons why individuals may engage in bullying:

1. Power and control: Some people bully others to exert power and control over them. They may feel a sense of superiority by belittling or demeaning others.

2. Insecurity and low self-esteem: Individuals with low self-esteem may bully others as a way to compensate for their own insecurities. By putting others down, they may temporarily feel better about themselves.

3. Peer pressure: In certain social groups, bullying may be perceived as a way to gain acceptance or maintain a certain social status. People may join in or continue bullying behavior to fit in with their peers.

4. Lack of empathy: Some individuals may have difficulty understanding or empathizing with the feelings of others. This lack of empathy can lead to a disregard for the harm they cause through bullying.

5. Learned behavior: Bullying can be learned from observing others, such as family members, friends, or even media influences. If someone grows up in an environment where bullying is normalized or tolerated, they may be more likely to engage in similar behavior.

6. Personal issues or trauma: Individuals who have experienced personal issues or trauma, such as abuse or neglect, may sometimes resort to bullying as a way to cope with their own pain or regain a sense of control.

It’s important to note that these are general reasons and not an exhaustive list. Each bullying situation is unique, and it may involve a combination of factors. Understanding the underlying reasons can help in developing strategies to address and prevent bullying behavior, fostering empathy, and promoting a positive and inclusive environment.

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Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth.

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Sometimes it’s a dog-eat-dog world and the rest of the time it’s the other way around.

— Lawrence Block
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