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“In order to understand what happens in your body when you dislike someone, you can start by trying to understand fear. As Robert Sapolsky writes in “Why Your Brain Hates Other People,” when we see someone who even looks different from us, “there is preferential activation of the amygdala,” which means the brain region associated with fear and aggression flares up. This visceral, emotional reaction can spark a long-term pattern of dislike when it’s validated by action: if you perceive that someone has hurt you, your fear of them becomes rational. Our negative feelings toward someone get stronger as bad experiences with them pile up, and these negative thoughts trigger the fight-or-flight response in our bodies.”

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“In a recent Ditch the Label study, we spoke to 7,347 people about bullying. We asked respondents to define bullying and then later asked if, based on their own definition, they had ever bullied anybody. 14% of our overall sample, so that’s 1,239 people, said yes. What we then did was something that had never been done on this scale before; we asked them intimate questions about their lives, exploring things like stress and trauma, home lives, relationships and how they feel about themselves.”

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“In order to understand what happens in your body when you dislike someone, you can start by trying to understand fear. As Robert Sapolsky writes in “Why Your Brain Hates Other People,” when we see someone who even looks different from us, “there is preferential activation of the amygdala,” which means the brain region associated with fear and aggression flares up. This visceral, emotional reaction can spark a long-term pattern of dislike when it’s validated by action: if you perceive that someone has hurt you, your fear of them becomes rational. Our negative feelings toward someone get stronger as bad experiences with them pile up, and these negative thoughts trigger the fight-or-flight response in our bodies.”

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Bullying

Bullying is a complex issue with various underlying causes. People engage in bullying behavior for different reasons, and it’s important to understand that it is not justified or acceptable. Here are some common reasons why individuals may engage in bullying:

1. Power and control: Some people bully others to exert power and control over them. They may feel a sense of superiority by belittling or demeaning others.

2. Insecurity and low self-esteem: Individuals with low self-esteem may bully others as a way to compensate for their own insecurities. By putting others down, they may temporarily feel better about themselves.

3. Peer pressure: In certain social groups, bullying may be perceived as a way to gain acceptance or maintain a certain social status. People may join in or continue bullying behavior to fit in with their peers.

4. Lack of empathy: Some individuals may have difficulty understanding or empathizing with the feelings of others. This lack of empathy can lead to a disregard for the harm they cause through bullying.

5. Learned behavior: Bullying can be learned from observing others, such as family members, friends, or even media influences. If someone grows up in an environment where bullying is normalized or tolerated, they may be more likely to engage in similar behavior.

6. Personal issues or trauma: Individuals who have experienced personal issues or trauma, such as abuse or neglect, may sometimes resort to bullying as a way to cope with their own pain or regain a sense of control.

It’s important to note that these are general reasons and not an exhaustive list. Each bullying situation is unique, and it may involve a combination of factors. Understanding the underlying reasons can help in developing strategies to address and prevent bullying behavior, fostering empathy, and promoting a positive and inclusive environment.

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“In a recent Ditch the Label study, we spoke to 7,347 people about bullying. We asked respondents to define bullying and then later asked if, based on their own definition, they had ever bullied anybody. 14% of our overall sample, so that’s 1,239 people, said yes. What we then did was something that had never been done on this scale before; we asked them intimate questions about their lives, exploring things like stress and trauma, home lives, relationships and how they feel about themselves.”

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