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“Like anybody, I like clothes, and I enjoy what I like to wear. We might have a difference in personal outfit choices. Some might not like it. But to judge someone because of their appearance is pretty foolish. If you have time to do that, I suggest you look at yourself in the mirror and spend more time developing yourself. Come on, it’s 2013.”
— G-Dragon
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Opinion vs ideas generation: what’s the difference?
“An opinion is a belief or judgment about something, while an idea is a creative way to solve a problem or do something new.”
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“Stop being a critic and be a light; don’t be a judge, be a model.”
— Sean Covey
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You can’t judge people only by how they treat you. The true test of character is how they treat those they don’t like or need.
Even if someone is kind to you, proceed with caution if they’re consistently unkind to others.
Selective civility is a sign of deep-seated hostility.
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Why do people judge others?
People judge others because the human
brain has natural preconceptions and prejudices, argues Women’s Health.
The part of the brain responsible for emotional and social behavior
activates unconscious attitudes upon which people judge others, even
before knowing who they are, asserts Time.
Judging others is a normal
reaction, notes Psychology Today. This is because human beings have a
natural instinct for survival, which makes them defensive and judgmental
when they feel threatened. People also judge when they don’t understand
the reason for the behavior of others. When people are not aware of the
pain others are experiencing, they fail to understand why they become
difficult and judge them. People judge others because the human mind
naturally looks for the negative, reveals Psychology Today.
People judge others because they forget that all human beings make
mistakes. People have differences in the ways of seeking happiness and
fulfillment, which make it hard for others to accept some behaviors.
Lack of education on the disabilities that affect behavior also makes
people judge others, asserts Psychology Today.
People also judge others because of their appearance or weight.
Research reveals that most people assume that faces with prominent
cheekbones and inner eyebrows are more trustworthy, according to Time.
People should try to know others before judging them, recommends
Psychology Today. In addition, people should not underestimate the
struggles of others.
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“Give up defining yourself – to yourself or to others. You won’t
die. You will come to life. And don’t be concerned with how others
define you. When they define you, they are limiting themselves, so it’s
their problem. Whenever you interact with people, don’t be there
primarily as a function or a role, but as the field of conscious
Presence. You can only lose something that you have, but you cannot lose
something that you are.”― Eckhart Tolle
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Before you assume, learn the facts.
Before you judge, understand why.
Before you hurt someone, feel.
Before you speak, think.
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If you judge people, you have no time to love them.