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https://www.manarom.com/blog/body_shaming.html
“Body shaming-BS” คือ การที่คนอื่นมาวิพากษ์วิจารณ์รูปร่างหน้าตา การแต่งตัว บุคลิกท่าทาง และรูปลักษณ์ที่แสดงออกภายนอกของเรา ไม่ว่าจะเป็นการพูดตรงๆ พูดเปรียบเทียบ หรือพูดล้อเล่น คำพูดเหล่านี้ส่งผลเสียต่อร่างกายและจิตใจของคนที่ถูกต่อว่าล้อเลียนอย่างมาก (emotional trauma) เป็นรูปแบบหนึ่งของการกลั่นแกล้งกัน (bullying) ทำให้เหยื่อรู้สึกไม่ภาคภูมิใจในตัวเอง (low-self esteem) นำไปสู่การป่วยเป็นโรคด้านจิตเวชได้ เช่น โรคซึมเศร้า (Depression) โรควิตกกังวลเรื่องรูปร่างหน้าตา (Body Dysmorphic Disorder-BDD) โรคการกินผิดปกติ (Eating Disorder) ยิ่งถูก BS ตั้งแต่อายุน้อยเท่าไรโดยเฉพาะอย่างยิ่งช่วงวัยรุ่นที่ต้องมีพัฒนาสร้างความเป็นตัวตน (self-identity) จะส่งผลเสียอย่างมาก มีการศึกษาวิจัยจากทั่วโลกพบความชุกของเรื่อง BS ร้อยละ 25-35 รายงานที่พบความชุกมากสุด คือ ร้อยละ 45″
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Teen charged in Georgia school shooting and his father to stay in custody after hearings
“Colt Gray, who has been charged with four counts of murder, is accused of using a semiautomatic assault-style rifle to kill two fellow students and two teachers Wednesday at Apalachee High School in Winder, outside Atlanta. His father, Colin Gray, faces related charges in the latest attempt by prosecutors to hold parents responsible for their children’s actions in school shootings.”
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“A narcissist is someone who causes emotional carnage around them and yet feels no guilt or responsibility for the destruction they’ve caused.”
— Sam Vaknin
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Narcissism: Symptoms and Signs
Other signs include:
- A sense of self-importance, exaggerating their achievements and talents
- A preoccupation with fantasies of success, power, or brilliance
- A belief that they’re more special or unique than others and should only associate with other high-status people
- Envy of others or the belief that others are envious of them
- Insisting they have the best of everything
- Feeling they deserve privileges and special treatment
“Narcissism is extreme self-involvement to the degree that it makes a person ignore the needs of those around them. While everyone may show occasional narcissistic behavior, true narcissists frequently disregard others or their feelings. They also do not understand the effect that their behavior has on other people.”
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The Male Ego: Definition, Causes, Tips, and More
“The male ego can in some cases be tied to how and where a man sees his place in the world and whether he’s living up to expectations — his and those of society.
Cultural stereotypes for men can be intricately tied to both the inflation and deflation of the male ego. Some men measure themselves by the answers to the following questions:
Am I strong enough? Am I wealthy enough? Do I meet the traditional definition of masculinity? Do I attract women? Do I control things or people? Do people recognize me for these things and am I respected and revered for them?”
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“Your ego takes you away from the present moment. Imagine living your whole life thinking about the past and the future, and then realising at the end that all you ever had was the present moment – but you were too stuck in your head to fully engage your senses and enjoy the world around you. Here’s how you can identify when your ego kicks in…”
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What’s So Bad About an “Ego Trip”?
“The falsehood here is that it’s always and automatically bad whenever you’re doing something that you wish to do, by your own standards and for your own sake. People think of ‘ego trip’ and they immediately think of a person looking in the mirror, obsessing on him- or herself. They confuse this image with the proper definition of ego, which is a rational orientation towards oneself and reality.”
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Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Symptoms & Treatment
“Narcissistic personality disorder isn’t a flaw or a character defect. It’s a mental health disorder. If you have it, there are things you can do to help yourself and strengthen your connections to others in a healthy way. It may be difficult to accept or admit, but this condition can seriously damage relationships and disrupt your life. You shouldn’t ignore it or avoid the reality of it.”
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Why a narcissist plays the victim may be directly connected to some of the symptoms of NPD:
- sense of entitlement
- denial and low insight
- grandiosity
- projection
- need for control
- narcissistic rage
- low empathy
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“It is important to ask yourself whether your thoughts are consistent with facts or logic. There could be another explanation for a situation that is truer than your interpretation. Sometimes it is hard to break from long-held beliefs that have become part of your reality. Understand that it can take time and patience to overcome any negative preconceived notions toward your life that you’ve built up.”
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“The greatest illusion the middle class holds is that they can ‘fix’ poverty from the outside, without ever understanding the lived experience of those within it.”
— Anonymous
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“The middle class, in all their naiveté, often believe that they can solve the problems of the lower class with the same tools they use to maintain their own status. But they are worlds apart, and what they fail to realize is that poverty isn’t a problem to be solved, but a condition to be survived.”
— Anonymous
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Effects of childhood trauma: Symptoms and how to heal
“Childhood trauma may occur after an adverse event makes a child feel unsafe or unable to cope. Trauma can impair a child’s emotional and cognitive abilities and disrupt their academic and social development. Adults who experienced childhood trauma may have a higher risk of mental health conditions and certain physical health conditions. They may also have difficulty maintaining relationships with others.”
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“The world is not driven by greed, it’s drive by envy.”
— Charlie Munger