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Ego Traps
• If you think it is more “spiritual” to ride a bike to work or use public transportation, but then find yourself judging anyone who drives a car, you’re in an ego trap.
• If you think it is more “spiritual” to stop watching television because it rots your brain, but then find yourself judging those who still watch TV, you’re in an ego trap.
• If you think it is more “spiritual” to avoid reading gossip, tabloid or news magazines, but then find yourself judging those who do read those things, you’re in an ego trap.
• If you think it is more “spiritual” to listen to classical music or soothing nature sounds, but then find yourself judging those who listen to mainstream or pop music, you’re in an ego trap.
• If you think it is more “spiritual” to do yoga, become a vegan, buy organic, buy healing crystals, practice reiki, meditate, wear hippie/thrift shop clothing, visit ashrams and read enlightened spiritual books, but then you judge anyone who doesn’t do those things, you’re in an ego trap.
Always be aware of the feeling of superiority. Self-righteous superiority is your biggest clue that you are in an ego trap. The ego loves to sneak in the back door. It will take a noble idea, like starting up yoga, and then twist it to serve its own ends by making you feel superior to others; you will start to look down on those who are not following your righteous “spiritual” path. Superiority, judgment and condemnation. That is the ego trap.
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“The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don’t know anything about.”
— Wayne Dyer
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“There is another type of fiction which we create all the time to glorify ourselves and denounce others. We backbite more and praise less. We project ourselves as smarter than what we actually are and discredit the smartness of others. We cover our follies and believe that we are great, good and virtuous and brand others as evil and vicious.”
— Awdhesh Singh, Myths are Real, Reality is a Myth
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We should tell ourselves we’re ignorant | Emma Kay Tocci | TEDxNYUAD
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A Cup of Tea
Nan-in, a Japanese master during the Meiji era (1868-1912), received a university professor who came to inquire about Zen.
Nan-in served tea. He poured his visitor’s cup full, and then kept on pouring.
The professor watched the overflow until he no longer could restrain himself. “It is overfull. No more will go in!”
“Like this cup,” Nan-in said, “you are full of your own opinions and speculations. How can I show you Zen unless you first empty your cup?”
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“What the superior man seeks is in himself; what the small man seeks is in others.”
— Confucius
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“In philosophy, the self is the relationship of an individual’s own being, knowledge and values. Self relates the experiences of one’s inner and outer living in presence.”
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Talking about achievements
When people talk about how good they are, it is often a manifestation of their self-presentation and self-image. Several psychological and social factors contribute to this behavior:
1. Self-enhancement: People have a natural tendency to present themselves in a positive light. They want to be seen as competent, successful, and capable individuals. Highlighting their strengths and accomplishments allows them to boost their self-esteem and maintain a positive self-concept.
2. Social validation: Seeking validation and acceptance from others is a fundamental human need. By emphasizing their achievements and skills, individuals hope to gain recognition and admiration from their peers. Positive feedback from others can reinforce their belief in their abilities.
3. Impression management: People often engage in impression management, which involves carefully curating the information they reveal about themselves to create a favorable impression. They may downplay weaknesses and emphasize strengths to influence how others perceive them.
4. Social comparison: Comparing oneself to others is a common behavior. When individuals talk about their accomplishments, they might be seeking to establish themselves as successful or superior to others in their social circle.
5. Fear of judgment: Some people may fear negative evaluation or criticism. By emphasizing their positive traits, they aim to reduce the likelihood of being judged or facing rejection.
6. Cultural norms: In some cultures, it is more acceptable to express confidence and talk about one’s achievements openly. Such cultural norms can influence the way people communicate and present themselves.
7. Reinforcement of self-belief: Talking about their successes and abilities can serve as a way for individuals to reinforce their own belief in their capabilities. By vocalizing their achievements, they remind themselves of what they are capable of accomplishing.
It is important to note that while self-enhancement and self-promotion are common behaviors, not everyone engages in them to the same extent. Some individuals may be more modest or prefer to downplay their accomplishments to maintain humility. Additionally, constant bragging or exaggeration can lead to negative social consequences and perceptions of arrogance, so finding a balance between self-expression and humility is essential for healthy social interactions.
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