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“Why escape your intended purpose by copying and trying to be someone else? You will discover who you were meant to be only after you have shown confidence being yourself.”

— Suzy Kassem

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“Narcissism is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one’s idealized self-image and attributes.”

— Sigmund Freud

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“Don’t be confused between what people say you are and who you know you are.”

— Oprah

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“There are different reasons why people bully, including: wanting to dominate others and improve their social status. having low self-esteem and wanting to feel better about themselves. having a lack of remorse or failing to recognise their behaviour as a problem.”

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“It’s likely that narcissistic personality disorder is caused by several factors, such as environmental circumstances (including the child-parent relationship) and genetics.”

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Rationalization (psychology)

Rationalization is a defense mechanism (ego defense) in which apparent logical reasons are given to justify behavior that is motivated by unconscious instinctual impulses. It is an attempt to find reasons for behaviors, especially one’s own. Rationalizations are used to defend against feelings of guilt, maintain self-respect, and protect oneself from criticism.

Rationalization happens in two steps: A decision, action, judgement is made for a given reason, or no (known) reason at all. A rationalization is performed, constructing a seemingly good or logical reason, as an attempt to justify the act after the fact (for oneself or others).

Rationalization encourages irrational or unacceptable behavior, motives, or feelings and often involves ad hoc hypothesizing. This process ranges from fully conscious (e.g. to present an external defense against ridicule from others) to mostly unconscious (e.g. to create a block against internal feelings of guilt or shame). People rationalize for various reasons—sometimes when we think we know ourselves better than we do. Rationalization may differentiate the original deterministic explanation of the behavior or feeling in question.

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Bullying behavior

Bullying behavior often stems from underlying psychological or emotional issues. Someone who bullies others may have certain mental health or personality factors contributing to their behavior. While not every bully has a diagnosable condition, here are some possible underlying factors:

1. Low Self-Esteem or Insecurity

  • Bullies might project their insecurities onto others to feel a sense of power or control.
  • They may use bullying to mask their own feelings of inadequacy.

2. Difficulty Managing Emotions

  • Anger, frustration, or anxiety might be expressed through aggression or dominance.
  • Poor coping mechanisms for dealing with stress can lead to lashing out at others.

3. History of Trauma or Abuse

  • People who have experienced physical, emotional, or verbal abuse may bully others as a way of exerting control.
  • This behavior can sometimes reflect learned patterns from abusive environments.

4. Need for Power or Control

  • Bullying might serve as a way to feel dominant, especially for individuals who feel powerless in other areas of their life.
  • This behavior can also be linked to authoritarian or controlling personality traits.

5. Lack of Empathy

  • Some individuals, especially those with traits of narcissistic or antisocial personality disorders, may lack empathy and enjoy causing harm to others.
  • They might bully to achieve personal gain or manipulate situations.

6. Peer Influence and Social Pressures

  • Bullying can be a way to fit in or gain social status, especially in environments that reward aggressive behavior.
  • Group dynamics can pressure individuals to act in ways they might not otherwise choose.

7. Unaddressed Mental Health Issues

  • Conditions like oppositional defiant disorder (ODD), conduct disorder, or certain personality disorders might include bullying as a symptom.
  • Unresolved anxiety, depression, or ADHD could also manifest in frustration and aggression.

8. Seeking Attention

  • Some people bully to gain attention, even if it’s negative, because they feel ignored or undervalued.

How to Address It:

  • Therapy or Counseling: Professional help can uncover and address the root causes of bullying behavior.
  • Teaching Empathy and Social Skills: Programs that focus on emotional intelligence can help individuals understand the impact of their actions.
  • Conflict Resolution Training: Teaching constructive ways to handle disagreements or frustrations can be effective.
  • Accountability and Consequences: Clear boundaries and consequences can deter bullying while encouraging self-reflection.

While understanding these factors can explain bullying behavior, it doesn’t excuse it. Addressing the root causes is essential for both the individual and those they affect.

By ChatGPT

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