narcissism

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“The male ego can in some cases be tied to how and where a man sees his place in the world and whether he’s living up to expectations — his and those of society.

Cultural stereotypes for men can be intricately tied to both the inflation and deflation of the male ego. Some men measure themselves by the answers to the following questions:

Am I strong enough? Am I wealthy enough? Do I meet the traditional definition of masculinity? Do I attract women? Do I control things or people? Do people recognize me for these things and am I respected and revered for them?”

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“Your ego takes you away from the present moment. Imagine living your whole life thinking about the past and the future, and then realising at the end that all you ever had was the present moment – but you were too stuck in your head to fully engage your senses and enjoy the world around you. Here’s how you can identify when your ego kicks in…”

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“If you have a selfish person in your life, you might feel overwhelmed or frustrated about not knowing how to communicate with them. It could feel like no matter what you say or do, this person continues to hurt you (either intentionally or unintentionally) to act in their own interests.”

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“The falsehood here is that it’s always and automatically bad whenever you’re doing something that you wish to do, by your own standards and for your own sake. People think of ‘ego trip’ and they immediately think of a person looking in the mirror, obsessing on him- or herself. They confuse this image with the proper definition of ego, which is a rational orientation towards oneself and reality.”

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“Narcissistic personality disorder isn’t a flaw or a character defect. It’s a mental health disorder. If you have it, there are things you can do to help yourself and strengthen your connections to others in a healthy way. It may be difficult to accept or admit, but this condition can seriously damage relationships and disrupt your life. You shouldn’t ignore it or avoid the reality of it.”

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donotdestroy:

Why a narcissist plays the victim may be directly connected to some of the symptoms of NPD:

  • sense of entitlement
  • denial and low insight
  • grandiosity
  • projection
  • need for control
  • narcissistic rage
  • low empathy

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Narcissism is a mental condition that can be caused by a number of factors, including:

Genetics

People with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) are more likely to have close relatives with the condition.

Observation and imitation

Children can learn narcissistic traits and behaviors from observing and imitating others.

Negative childhood experiences

There may be a link between NPD and negative childhood experiences.

Parenting style

Overprotective or “helicopter” parenting, or overindulging children, can lead to children who expect and demand the same treatment from others.

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