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“You live like this, sheltered, in a delicate world, and you believe you
are living. Then you read a book… or you take a trip… and you discover
that you are not living, that you are hibernating. The symptoms of
hibernating are easily detectable: first, restlessness. The second
symptom (when hibernating becomes dangerous and might degenerate into
death): absence of pleasure. That is all. It appears like an innocuous
illness. Monotony, boredom, death. Millions live like this (or die like
this) without knowing it. They work in offices. They drive a car. They
picnic with their families. They raise children. And then some shock
treatment takes place, a person, a book, a song, and it awakens them and
saves them from death. Some never awaken.”— Anaïs Nin
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If Dominance is an act of setting someone free, and Submission is an act of willfully devoting oneself to another, then who is the captor and who is the captive? A leash after all has two ends, both of which must be held. Ultimately, Dominant and Submissive are bound to one another not by chains but by their own need, and the mutual fulfillment of those needs…We are here by choice and by choice we stay.
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It’s better to hang out with people better than you. Pick out associates whose behavior is better than yours and you’ll drift in that direction.
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Why Is It So Hard To Be Kind? by Ajahn Brahm
