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donotdestroy:

“The male ego can in some cases be tied to how and where a man sees his place in the world and whether he’s living up to expectations — his and those of society.

Cultural stereotypes for men can be intricately tied to both the inflation and deflation of the male ego. Some men measure themselves by the answers to the following questions:

Am I strong enough? Am I wealthy enough? Do I meet the traditional definition of masculinity? Do I attract women? Do I control things or people? Do people recognize me for these things and am I respected and revered for them?”

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“Narcissism is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one’s idealized self-image and attributes.”

— Sigmund Freud

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One study of just this concept found that nearly half of people surveyed would rather make $50,000 in a world where the average salary is $25,000 than make $100,000 in a world where the average is $200,000; that is, they prioritized making more relative to other people rather than having a higher overall income. As the saying goes, “If you and I are being chased by a bear, I don’t have to outrun the bear; I just have to outrun you.”

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We lie to ourselves to protect our self-images, which allows us to act immorally while maintaining a clear conscience. According to the very latest research, self-deception may have even evolved to help us to persuade others; if we start believing our own lies, it’s much easier to get other people to believe them, too.

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“There are a number of theories on the reasons why people experience jealousy. Whether it’s over what other people have that we don’t or have accomplished by means of resources, privilege, opportunity, or hard work, it seems like jealousy has always been a part of being human. One theory is that jealousy was how our early ancestors defended themselves from infidelity, according to evolutionary psychology. Today, we’ve taken theory and applied it to more rigorous scientific study.”

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“Satanism advocates practicing a modified form of the Golden Rule. Our interpretation of this rule is: “Do unto others as they do unto you”; because if you “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you,” and they, in turn, treat you badly, it goes against human nature to continue to treat them with consideration. You should do unto others as you would have them do unto you, but if your courtesy is not returned, they should be treated with the wrath they deserve.”

— Anton Szandor LaVey

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“At the root of hypocrisy is a strong desire to be loved and accepted. The fear of humility and judgment is so powerful, that we use doublethink and cognitive dissonance to avoid facing ourselves.”

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“So bullshitting isn’t just nonsense. It’s constructed in order to appear meaningful, though on closer examination, it isn’t. And bullshit isn’t the same as lying. A liar knows the truth but makes statements deliberately intended to sell people on falsehoods. bullshitters, in contrast, aren’t concerned about what’s true or not, so much as they’re trying to appear as if they know what they’re talking about. In that sense, bullshitting can be thought of as a verbal demonstration of the Dunning-Kruger effect—when people speak from a position of disproportionate confidence about their knowledge relative to what little they actually know, bullshit is often the result.”

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donotdestroy:

“There are a number of theories on the reasons why people experience jealousy. Whether it’s over what other people have that we don’t or have accomplished by means of resources, privilege, opportunity, or hard work, it seems like jealousy has always been a part of being human. One theory is that jealousy was how our early ancestors defended themselves from infidelity, according to evolutionary psychology. Today, we’ve taken theory and applied it to more rigorous scientific study.”

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donotdestroy:

“The male ego can in some cases be tied to how and where a man sees his place in the world and whether he’s living up to expectations — his and those of society.

Cultural stereotypes for men can be intricately tied to both the inflation and deflation of the male ego. Some men measure themselves by the answers to the following questions:

Am I strong enough? Am I wealthy enough? Do I meet the traditional definition of masculinity? Do I attract women? Do I control things or people? Do people recognize me for these things and am I respected and revered for them?”

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“Turning insecurities into memes on social media is a subtle way of seeking connection and validation without admitting the need for help.”

— Unknown

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donotdestroy:

“There are a number of theories on the reasons why people experience jealousy. Whether it’s over what other people have that we don’t or have accomplished by means of resources, privilege, opportunity, or hard work, it seems like jealousy has always been a part of being human. One theory is that jealousy was how our early ancestors defended themselves from infidelity, according to evolutionary psychology. Today, we’ve taken theory and applied it to more rigorous scientific study.”

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When people talk about how good they are, it is often a manifestation of their self-presentation and self-image. Several psychological and social factors contribute to this behavior:

1. Self-enhancement: People have a natural tendency to present themselves in a positive light. They want to be seen as competent, successful, and capable individuals. Highlighting their strengths and accomplishments allows them to boost their self-esteem and maintain a positive self-concept.

2. Social validation: Seeking validation and acceptance from others is a fundamental human need. By emphasizing their achievements and skills, individuals hope to gain recognition and admiration from their peers. Positive feedback from others can reinforce their belief in their abilities.

3. Impression management: People often engage in impression management, which involves carefully curating the information they reveal about themselves to create a favorable impression. They may downplay weaknesses and emphasize strengths to influence how others perceive them.

4. Social comparison: Comparing oneself to others is a common behavior. When individuals talk about their accomplishments, they might be seeking to establish themselves as successful or superior to others in their social circle.

5. Fear of judgment: Some people may fear negative evaluation or criticism. By emphasizing their positive traits, they aim to reduce the likelihood of being judged or facing rejection.

6. Cultural norms: In some cultures, it is more acceptable to express confidence and talk about one’s achievements openly. Such cultural norms can influence the way people communicate and present themselves.

7. Reinforcement of self-belief: Talking about their successes and abilities can serve as a way for individuals to reinforce their own belief in their capabilities. By vocalizing their achievements, they remind themselves of what they are capable of accomplishing.

It is important to note that while self-enhancement and self-promotion are common behaviors, not everyone engages in them to the same extent. Some individuals may be more modest or prefer to downplay their accomplishments to maintain humility. Additionally, constant bragging or exaggeration can lead to negative social consequences and perceptions of arrogance, so finding a balance between self-expression and humility is essential for healthy social interactions.

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donotdestroy:

“There are a number of theories on the reasons why people experience jealousy. Whether it’s over what other people have that we don’t or have accomplished by means of resources, privilege, opportunity, or hard work, it seems like jealousy has always been a part of being human. One theory is that jealousy was how our early ancestors defended themselves from infidelity, according to evolutionary psychology. Today, we’ve taken theory and applied it to more rigorous scientific study.”

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