{"id":25591,"date":"2015-03-23T15:37:00","date_gmt":"2015-03-23T15:37:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.donotdestroy.com\/index\/114393437377-2\/"},"modified":"2026-02-01T07:55:44","modified_gmt":"2026-02-01T00:55:44","slug":"114393437377-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.donotdestroy.com\/index\/114393437377-2\/","title":{"rendered":"114393437377"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When someone tells you, \u201cI love you,\u201d and then you feel, \u201cOh, I must be worthy after all,\u201d that\u2019s an illusion. That\u2019s not true. Or someone says, \u201cI hate you,\u201d and you think, \u201cOh, God, I knew it; I\u2019m not very worthy,\u201d that\u2019s not true either. Neither one of these thoughts hold any intrinsic reality. They are an overlay. When someone says, \u201cI love you,\u201d he is telling you about himself, not you. When someone says, \u201cI hate you,\u201d she is telling you about herself, not you. 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