{"id":8572,"date":"2025-01-27T23:27:00","date_gmt":"2025-01-27T23:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.donotdestroy.com\/index\/773844102078922752-2\/"},"modified":"2026-02-01T05:24:50","modified_gmt":"2026-01-31T22:24:50","slug":"773844102078922752-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.donotdestroy.com\/index\/773844102078922752-2\/","title":{"rendered":"773844102078922752"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1><\/h1>\n<p class=\"npf_link\" data-npf='{\"type\":\"link\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/traversmark\/2024\/03\/07\/a-psychologist-explains-why-we-lie-to-ourselves-and-offers-2-fixes\/\",\"display_url\":\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/traversmark\/2024\/03\/07\/a-psychologist-explains-why-we-lie-to-ourselves-and-offers-2-fixes\/\",\"title\":\"A Psychologist Explains Why We Lie To Ourselves\u2014And Offers 2 Fixes\",\"description\":\"Explore why you lie to yourself and the best practices to stop it.\",\"site_name\":\"Forbes\",\"poster\":[{\"media_key\":\"3b3b3e5510ce7b2e8258e473fa715ff8:d7aae1ba9dfa894a-a4\",\"type\":\"image\/jpeg\",\"width\":1600,\"height\":751}]}'><a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/traversmark\/2024\/03\/07\/a-psychologist-explains-why-we-lie-to-ourselves-and-offers-2-fixes\/\" target=\"_blank\">A Psychologist Explains Why We Lie To Ourselves\u2014And Offers 2 Fixes<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe chilling truth behind self-deception is its unconscious control over our psyche. 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