{"id":9509,"date":"2025-06-18T23:29:00","date_gmt":"2025-06-18T23:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.donotdestroy.com\/index\/786709007122448384-2\/"},"modified":"2026-02-01T05:12:47","modified_gmt":"2026-01-31T22:12:47","slug":"786709007122448384-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.donotdestroy.com\/index\/786709007122448384-2\/","title":{"rendered":"786709007122448384"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1><\/h1>\n<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"https:\/\/donotdestroy.tumblr.com\/post\/771622179888644096\/the-psychology-of-hate\">donotdestroy<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"npf_link\" data-npf='{\"type\":\"link\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/intl\/blog\/nurturing-self-compassion\/201703\/the-psychology-of-hate\",\"display_url\":\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/intl\/blog\/nurturing-self-compassion\/201703\/the-psychology-of-hate\",\"title\":\"The Psychology of Hate\",\"description\":\"Who you hate says a lot about you.\",\"site_name\":\"Psychology Today\",\"poster\":[{\"media_key\":\"3e0653e6c9bb09111e6c1c789188dba7:654df6914ce30397-2e\",\"type\":\"image\/jpeg\",\"width\":1528,\"height\":800}]}'><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/intl\/blog\/nurturing-self-compassion\/201703\/the-psychology-of-hate\" target=\"_blank\">The Psychology of Hate<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201cHatred has to be learned, Golden says: \u2018We are all born with the capacity for aggression as well as compassion. Which tendencies we embrace requires mindful choice by individuals, families, communities and our culture in general. The key to overcoming hate is education: at home, in schools, and in the community.\u2019 According to Dutchevici, facing the fear of being vulnerable and utterly human is what allows us to connect, to feel, and ultimately, to love. She suggests creating &#8216;cracks in the system.\u2019 These cracks can be as simple as connecting to your neighbor, talking with a friend, starting a protest, or even going to therapy and connecting with an \u2018Other.\u2019 It is through these acts that one can understand hate and love.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>donotdestroy: The Psychology of Hate \u201cHatred has to be learned, &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12749],"tags":[655,7349,2472,726,7014,7690,733,3112,644,289,7015,4702,1374,7293,732,714,705,638,525,641,5713,704,3,617,640,583,3683,1538,2458,4578],"class_list":["post-9509","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tumblr","tag-artist","tag-awearness","tag-billionaire","tag-bullshit","tag-bully","tag-concsiousness","tag-depression","tag-fear","tag-greed","tag-hate","tag-hater","tag-hatred","tag-human","tag-low-selfesteem","tag-mental-illness","tag-millionaire","tag-mind","tag-money","tag-people","tag-poor","tag-prejudice","tag-psychology","tag-quote-of-the-day","tag-quotes","tag-rich","tag-science","tag-self-conscious","tag-selfrealization","tag-society","tag-weak"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.6 - 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